Here are some wedding etiquette tips to be aware of.
Weddings are joyful, exciting, and full of celebration, but they’re also a sacred and meaningful moment in a couple’s life. And while everyone loves the party, the ceremony is the heart of the day. If you’re attending a wedding, a few simple etiquette tips go a long way in showing respect for the couple, their families, and the significance of the moment. Here are some wedding etiquette tips to be aware of.
Plan to Arrive Early
This one seems obvious, but you’d be surprised how many guests arrive late. Aim to arrive at least 20 to 30 minutes before the wedding ceremony so you’re not rushing in as the processional music starts. Arriving early gives you time to find your seat, settle in, and take in the beauty of the setting without disrupting the flow. Walking in late can be distracting, and you certainly don’t want to be the one disrupting the event or shuffling around trying to find your seat.
Put Your Phone Away
Everyone wants that perfect photo, but during the ceremony, the couple has likely hired a professional photographer to capture every moment. The last thing you want is your iPhone messing up the professional photos. That means your phone doesn’t need to be in the air. Many couples now request guests to keep their phones tucked away until after the vows. It’s a small gesture that makes a big difference, allowing everyone to be fully present during such an important moment.
Be Mindful Of What You Wear
While weddings are a chance to dress up, it’s still essential to follow the couple’s dress code. If the invite says formal, dress the part. If it’s a garden ceremony, maybe skip the stilettos and opt for something more outdoor-friendly. The goal is to look polished and put together while respecting the setting and the day’s tone. And of course, unless you’ve been specifically asked to avoid wearing white because that shade is reserved for the bride.
Respect Reserved Seating
If you see a row marked as “reserved,” it’s not up for grabs, no matter how good the view is. These seats are typically set aside for immediate family members, the wedding party, or elderly guests who may need easier access. Even if the ceremony hasn’t started, resist the urge to snag one. There will be plenty of other beautiful seats available.
Don’t Talk During the Ceremony
It’s normal to greet friends and family as you find your seat, but once the music begins, it’s time to be quiet. Whispering or chatting during the ceremony can be distracting to others around you. Keep your focus on the couple and what’s happening in front of you. Save your catch-up conversations for cocktail hour when it’s time to celebrate.
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